AIO for being so mad about my dad rearranging my apps

I 19(F) am insanely upset because I gave my dad my phone for a mere 4 minutes because he had to fix something on one of my apps. Come to find out he completely purposefully rearranged all my apps in his own way as if it were his phone, he does this same thing with my room, my clothes, food, EVERYTHING. This phone thing is just a minor inconvenience to me, but I personally see it as a breach of boundaries and i see this as controlling behavior (bc he IS very controlling in a lot of aspects), considering im not a child anymore. But I am also upset because I have everything in my designated spots and I know where everything is. Everytime he does something like this, it throws me off and I end up taking so long trying to find where he rearranged things to and its just infuriating.

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I called him after I found out and pressed him on what possessed him to commit such a sinister act on my own cellular device. he told me in a joking manner "I forget that you arent 15 anymore" which is his excuse for literally everything, and i am not taking that as an excuse anymore since hes had 4 years to remember. I dont see how this means you rearrange everything in my phone. He also blamed his OCD that he does not have, whatever lol. I just find it incredibly disrespectful and im sure its just past issues that are making me THIS worked up over it.