Recommendations make me look 10 years older

As stated above, I cannot wear the recommended outfits because they age me quite a bit. As a young person I’m not exactly striving to look 30+ in daily life and that’s what high rise pants do for me. I prefer low rise jeans (they sit as the high hip on me) because they actually tend to define my waist more than having my pants stop right at the waist and they make me look my age. How can I alter the recommendations to be more casual and youthful and work with my rise preference. I tend to wear cotton so think casual for summer. Thanks for your input!