50 [M4F] #Chicago - Can you compartmentalize?
I can …
Or, at least, I have been able to in the past.
Yeah, I’ve done this before. I’ve had two really positive long-term affairs with great people. I’ve been really lucky.
Can it happen again? I’m dubious but hopeful.
Striking that emotional balance can be really tricky, but I feel like I’m good at it. My home life and my role as a father are extremely important to me, but I also have a lot to give to a potential AP. I’m a good friend, listener, and lover.
I also have a shitload of Arby’s bucks, so we can go out for a nice dinner any time you want. 😎
I’m tall (6’ 2”), fit, white, bearded and outdoorsy/active. I’m also intellectually curious and culturally engaged (even beyond Arby’s).
It’s a rainy Sunday morning and I’m home alone (such a rarity). Feels so peaceful. Life is pretty good. I wish I had someone fun to text with. Does that appeal to you?
I want to learn all about you. Is it ok if I ask lots of questions? I’m just super curious.
Ok, enough of my rambling. Hope you’re having a good weekend. Thanks for reading this.
Posted Jun 14, 2026, 12:14 PM UTC