I’m the partner of a trans man..

NSFW, nothing graphic though.

I’m just going to say it! 😬

Is it weird or even fetishizing if I adore my man’s bottom growth and got excited when he got back on hormones?
He is happy about it, which is the best and my favorite part, that it gives him confidence. He took a short break from hormones because of insurance changes, but, being on hormones makes our sex life pick up. Which I’m happy to oblige lol. We have a very intimate and sensual sex life. We just adore each-other.
Additional info
I identify as non-binary, but have mostly been femme leaning, and being with my partner I’ve leaned into my femininity because I know appearing straight passing out and about also makes my fiancé more confident. He always validates my identity and never makes me feel like I have to act or dress a certain way. I mention this because, I always want to do the same for him, though passing has always been a little easier for him, considering he identifies with binary gender and most gender norms, though he does still occasionally face misgendering. Having said that, he is very confident in his identity while I have more reserve for myself.

Anyway, maybe rambling, but bottom line I don’t want to make him feel like just because I like the affects of his hormones that my love or attraction for him would change if he decided to quit them. Because that isn’t the case, AT ALL! I know I have mentioned to him that I enjoy his bottom growth, so how can I validate the changes that he’s wanted to see by going on hormones but also make clear that nothing about him need to change for me to adore him?

Of course, I’ll talk to him about what works best for him and makes him feel most loved and confident but anything that can help me start the convo would be sure be helpful!

Thanks for any input:)

- “D” (she/they)