38 [m4f] #Dayton Ohio - be picky, pick this post

After having varying degrees of success at meeting people, I'm trying a new approach, be as picky as possible. After all, shouldn't we be? If we're all here to find something to supplement our somewhat lacking marriages, why shouldn't we be looking for exactly what we want? If you agree, let's move on!

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First, I'm ideally looking for someone in the Dayton area. The exception to this would be if you are able to travel to the Dayton area if and when we eventually want to meet. I've done online only relationships before and while I've met amazing people doing that, I want something that has potential to be in person.

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While I'm not picky about body types, please at least try to take care of yourself. I don't mind curves, but if you're overweight and lazy, that's not going to work for me.

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In terms of personality, I need someone talkative, someone who is affectionate, and someone who is funny. I want someone who is going to be all in on this and will put in the effort to make this work. I also want someone who will be understanding when life gets in the way. I have two small children who are my world. So there will be times when I can't chat as much but I will always do my best to let you know. I just ask for the same in return.

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Ok this is starting to get lengthy....so here's a bit about me...I'm 38, 5'8", with an average/athletic build. I love to read, bike, listen to podcasts, watch soccer, cook, and occasionally woodwork. Oh and I guess I should throw in that I'm not looking to change my situation or yours. I'm looking for someone to share my days with, laugh with, flirt with. Yes, like I said, I'd like to have meeting in person as a possiblity, but I'd like to get to know each other first and establish trust. So who's still reading? You are? Awesome! Shoot me a message and let's start something incredible!