Two cents on my sexual situation

(M25) So I’ll start off by saying I haven’t been the best boy with sobriety. The last few times I’ve been with a girl it has been interesting to say the least. I have been “partying” if you catch my drift while I have been drinking. The last few times I’ve been with a girl I have been able to perform and get the little guy working. Last night it happened again and I kinda actually like this girl, I have known her for a little bit. After about an hour of messing around she kinda realized I wasn’t gonna be able to finish and she started crying and assuming I just wasn’t attracted to her when trust me, I very much so am. We messaged a little after she left and she just kept saying sorry and that she feels like I’m not into her. She asked me what I was doing and then she went to work and she won’t respond to me anymore. I have only messaged her once because I don’t wanna be pushy but I really do wanna try to talk to her about the situation. Should I just take my loss and maybe let her reach out to me or should i try and contact her?