Nothing Is Above Your Mental Health

What makes you stay stuck with an avoidant person for years? Because after a certain point, it stops looking like love and starts looking like you constantly abandoning yourself just to keep the connection alive.

Do you ever stop and ask yourself what it is doing to your mental health? Do you ever feel lost trying to explain basic emotional needs to someone who keeps making you feel like you are asking for too much?

The only hope for avoidants to change is self-awareness and therapy, if you hope that one day they will finally understand you or call to say sorry for what they did, you are setting up yourself for disaster💔

You do not have to hate the avoidant, but you sure do need to love yourself enough to stop losing yourself ❤️

I hope you escape that, you are more valuable than you realize and I hope you extend the same love you give them to yourself because you certainly need it!