He says he’s the prize

I’ve been with this guy a year and half now. 36F 31M

I washed his locs and we’re getting ready to chill then he says “I was going to get you a card, but I didn’t have an envelope and I didn’t feel like going to another store” I made a face like 😐 okay whatever, he says “speak on it” then I tell him “It would be better if you just showed up with a card versus telling me you’re going to do something and not do it”

He asks if I felt unappreciated. Uh, yea.. because I’ve done a lot for him and even gifted him. He says he figured since we were going to the movies later that I’d be okay. 🤦🏾‍♀️

Over all per the title, his mindset is he don’t have to impress a woman which has me scratching my head. I haven’t received a birthday, Valentine’s Day or Christmas present from him. I mean I can buy myself some flowers but damn, I’d like Something.

I don’t ask for much but Is it so hard to want to be Shown appreciation? TL;DR

Posted Jun 15, 2026, 12:55 PM UTC

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