Milestone - 200 days

We were never the twice a week sort of couple. Even when she was pregnant we did it a total of one time. Waited for a year and half post our kid being born. Since then we have done it 6 times in total, and kid is 3 years old now.

She keeps suggesting tonight is the night and then by bedtime it’s comes out I’m being pushy.

I no longer feel like date nights make sense, why spend so much money when the best I can get out of it some cleavage.

Divorce seems like the best step but again our kid is just so happy and outside of our relationship (or lack of it) we are in a good place and stability and happiness for our kid is the most important. Divorce is so easy to suggest but I really don’t want to have even a day without my kid and neither should my wife. Perhaps when she’s off to college!

Also turning 40, so I feel like my life from a sex and intimacy POV is done. Trying to make it clear to her I do not want to celebrate because of reasons.

Anyways I like how our milestone of 200 days since is easy to track because we last did it on Thanksgiving 2025. One of my regrets is not savoring and marking the last time I was sucked off because that’s definitely at least 5 years.

Perhaps I’ll come back with a post on year 1, day 500 etc.

How’re people marking these undesirable milestones? I don’t want to go passive aggressive and deal with wife’s ire, but something fun or for myself to celebrate alone would be nice.