40 [M4F] #MA - There is a charm about the forbidden that makes it unspeakably desirable

That charm, that desire isn't just about what we don't have, but what a yearning for what we *need* but *shouldn't* pine after.

When you put the cover on a lit candle, it will eventually consume the oxygen in the space provided and snuff itself out. However, if you pull that top off before the flame is completely extinguished it immediately shoots back to life; vibrant, bright, and dancing gently on it's wick having received the breath it needed to survive.

Sex, intimacy, and passion are the oxygen to our candles. When you say "I do", you imagine the person across from you will provide those things until death to us part, but life finds a way sometimes to contort that. We get busy, we have kids, we stress about our finances and our jobs and a myriad other things. We gain a few pounds and need our partner, our lover, to lift the top off our candle and breathe life back into us.

But...we're here. Our flames are dim, on the verge of being snuffed out from being suffocated by a lack of desire, passion, and the feeling of an orgasm given to you by someone who doesn't just want you but *craves* you - in a way that the magic wand that needs to be charged yet again could never do. So I propose this - let me breathe life back into you, and quench that ache that has you hanging on every word of this post thus far.

You: age largely irrelevant, but I do prefer women 30+. Married (unhappily), and with time to actually meet in person after a while. Know what you want and commit to it - and while I'm not looking to change your situation, I am looking to improve it and would like to keep this going for a while. I'm not here for one and done - I want to learn your ins and outs and how to keep you keyed up, while also hearing about your day, your frustrations, your dreams. I have a wide range of what I find beautiful, but bonus points if you can rock a pair of heels.

Me: 40, intelligent, witty, well-spoken, high drive, and with a varying list of kinks. Open-minded, adventurous and very much a people-pleaser - getting my partner off is my number one turn on. I have an innate knack for making people around me feel safe, comfortable, and heard, and that's a compliment I take highly. Physically I'm 5'8", short brown hair, short salt and pepper beard, beautiful blue eyes with glasses, a few tattoos, and a few extra pounds I'm working on. I do have kids but can't have more (vasectomy), and I have a ton of hobbies and interests, and a unique situation that may benefit us both that I'm happy to chat about in private.

Discretion is paramount.

~ If you're looking for the perfect paramour - someone who is local, will make you smile (and melt) every time your phone buzzes, and will strive to make you forget your own name in bed - reach out. ~