34 [M4F] #Winnipeg, Canada - Native American Man Looking For His Younger Submissive White Girl, No Matter Where She Is
Hello, all. I am a bear (not that kind) and you can call me Zee for now. I figured I'd give this site a try to see if I can find my mystery woman since dating sites are awful and this site/app isn't too bad. I'm not interested in dating local because I will eventually leave my current city. It's just there for rules sake.
Now, this one is gonna be a novel because it'll be a kinky version of my normal post because that already has a lot of detail about me as a person. I'll start out with the details about myself and then dive into the kink related stuff after it to keep it relatively easy to read and I'll make sure to give you a warning so you don't get whiplash in your neck or ass. This post is very sub specific and you won't see it along with my other ones.
I want to take things slow and start online so we can take our time getting to know each other. We'll chat on Reddit for a day or two before moving off-site if we decide to give things a try and we have some chemistry.
I'm looking for a long-term relationship that eventually leads to having a family one day. I want a woman I can share my life and hobbies with, and a woman who wants to share her life and hobbies with me. Someone I can go hiking and fishing with, watch movies and read with, that kind of thing. Even if it's not something either of us would normally do it's nice to be a part of it and share that experience and learn something. Being together and doing something, or being together as we do other things and just enjoying the experience together.
Does this mean I'm looking for a woman who's very different from me? No. Having things in common is a must now and I am looking for a geeky homebody who enjoys being home and likes to go outside occasionally for her enrichment activities. At this point I'm not as extroverted as I used to be and I have a new appreciation for my home. Bonus points if you like trading card games like I do.
About me: I'm 34, Canadian, single, relatively social, and like to keep myself in good health, physical and otherwise. I'm Left Wing, not religious, and not very spiritual despite my culture since I wasn't raised with a connection to it. It comes and goes and I'm feeling a pull towards that grows stronger over time.
Physically, I'm Native American, 5'10, about 185 lbs, with tanned skin, dark hair, and brown eyes. I keep myself in good shape and have a lean/athletic build with clean habits. I do not smoke, drink or do drugs.
I love music, gaming, reading, hiking, fishing and angling, biking, ice/roller skating, archery, paleontology, DINOSAURS, archaeology, and movies. I have a growing collection of VHS and DVD movies and a VCR and DVD player to watch them on. Anyway, skating, fishing, thrifting, gaming and spending too much money eating out are among my daily activities. Fishing less so during winter time.
Since gaming is my main not-spend-money hobby I got a PS5, Series S, Switch, a decent gaming laptop and loads of old consoles and games. Single player games are my go to but I'm willing to get new ones for co-op play. In terms of free to play games, I play Wuthering Waves, Neverness to Everness and occasionally Fortnite.
As for other things I like, I'm into Star Wars, Tomb Raider, Alien, Gundam and trading card games like Magic the Gathering, Yu-Gi-Oh!, Pokemon, Digimon, and Lorcana.
Some of you might be wondering why a man in his 30's wants to settle down now, that's because I didn't want to in my 20's. I always knew I wanted a wife and kids one day but wasn't ready for it until about 3 years ago and the dating scene is rough when you want a family.
That's it for the details about me as a person and now for the dealbreakers and what I'm specifically looking for in a woman.
Dealbreakers: Drugs, alcohol, smoking, religion, conservatives, single mothers, competitiveness, dominant women.
As for what I'm actually looking for a younger, feminine, family oriented woman who knows she wants kids, is a good person who treats people with the kindness and respect they deserve, takes care of herself and stays in good shape, and knows how to cook and/or bake. Bonus points if you're short because I love a short woman.
Since I am looking for a woman who wants kids I am open to age gaps. If you need a number the range is 18 to 28 since I have a minimum 6 year gap.
Location isn't that important because our schedules will be the decider more than the actual time. Canada, the US and Europe are the obvious choices. Time differences can be a little tricky but I'm ready and willing to try.
**KINK SPECIFIC PART STARTS HERE**
If my deal breaker or title isnt an indication I am looking for a woman that is 100% submissive and obedient. No brats. No chasing. No breaking. I am not a Brat Tamer and I don't have the patience for that kind of thing anymore.
In terms of what kind of Dominant I am it's Daddy. Or Soft Dom as some would say. I am obsessed with my sub inside and out and I cherish her obedience as much as her mind, emotions and body. That being said, I can be pretty... Insatiable at times and I have a high libido/sex drive and a girl who has stamina and loves to show off is a bonus. If it's not already clear you will be taking nudes and your face doesn't need to be seen if you're not comfortable with it.
As Liberal as I am I do believe in a traditional male led relationship where the woman obeys and trusts in her man's decision making. With her input, of course, because that is important and she should get a say as long as she understands that the final decision is not up to her. An obedient woman is a good woman and they go farther than brats.
Teaching is something I enjoy and I've been told I'm good at it so little or no experience is nothing to worry about. You can be a completely new submissive just starting out, or an experienced sub who knows what she wants and likes and anything in between. Since I am looking for a younger woman toys and lingerie and the like are nothing to worry about. It's good if you have them but fine if you don't. There are plenty of ways to make do and I'll be sure to make sure you get creative and enjoy yourself.
Because I love to see and use my subs body Exhibitionism, Orgasm Control and Wardrobe Control are personal favourites to keep her occupied and to test her obedience and self control. I like to keep my subs naked at home and wear as little as needed when going out so she's ready for use when I want her.
My other kinks are Anal, Feet, Exhibitionism, Orgasm Control, Body Writing, Watersports, Pet Play, DDlg, Light Degradation/Humiliation and Freeuse. I feel like these branch out into smaller things here and there so I'm not gonna go into great detail on it. It doesn't help that since I'm not interested in anything local that I'm out practice and need to rediscover some things about myself and get out there again.
That's all. This is long enough as it is and I'll refine it as I go. If you have any questions I'll answer them as best I can but only if you're serious. Keep in mind that you will verify immediately to prove you're a woman and that you're serious. Anyone else will be given one chance or ignored outright.
If you made it this far and are interested, open with your age, current time, and something that's a favourite of yours.
Posted Jun 15, 2026, 1:04 PM UTC · locked