Why you should not choose me as your Domme

Don't pick me if you're looking for a deal. My time, my attention, my presence. None of it is discounted. I don't negotiate my worth down to fit your budget.

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Don't pick me if you want control. The whole point is that you don't get to keep it. If surrendering scares you more than it excites you, save us both the trouble.

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Don't pick me if you're not ready to be seen as exactly what you are, and want to be.

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Don't pick me if you want a transaction. Tributes mean something here. They're not a toll you pay to skip the line. If you just want a fast exchange with no weight behind it, this isn't that.

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Don't pick me if you're testing the waters. I'm not interested in being your trial run before you find someone "more serious." Either you know what you want, or you don't. Figure that out first.

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Don't pick me if compliments are your only love language. I'm not going to inflate your ego to keep you comfortable. Growth happens in the discomfort, not just the praise.

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Don't pick me if you need to feel in charge of the pace. I decide what happens and when. You don't get a vote. You get the privilege of finding out.

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Don't pick me if you'll resent me for taking what I'm given. Once it's mine, it's mine. No buyer's remorse, no second-guessing after the fact.

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Don't pick me if you want to be the exception. There isn't one. Whatever rule applies to everyone else applies to you too. No special treatment because you asked nicely.

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Don't pick me if you're going to disappear when it gets real. Half-commitment wastes both our time. I'd rather you walk away now than ghost me three weeks in.

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Don't pick me if you think devotion is supposed to feel comfortable. It's not supposed to be easy. It's supposed to cost you something. That's how you know it's real.

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Don't pick me if you need to keep credit for what you give. The moment you start keeping score, you've missed the point entirely.

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Don't pick me if you're hoping I'll eventually need you more than you need me. That's not how this works, and it never will be.

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If you've read this far and you're still here, you already know which one you are. And if you were triggered, good, that's the point. Go and work on that.

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