I [M25] have started falling again from my friend/colleuge [F23] again. Does she like me?
So there is this girl at work we have know each other now for 3 years she helped me with a crush at work who is in our friend group now all 3 of us but last year i fell for her she started talking to her ex but just talk nothing else and i kinda did some stupid stuff said stupid stuff like dont talk to him dont get caught up on your past ect ect and she found out i liked her another friend overheard them talking the two girls and she thought i was down bad , and her best friend said you can be with anyone just not him ect ect we stoped talking after that we wouldnt just say good morning . We slowly getitng to talk again months later fast forward march of 2026 i noticed she got close to me so i thought hmmm why not give it a shot and she did give me better signs this time she would iniate more chats after work by herslef she told me she would dye her hair and only me and her sister knew and the day she dyed them she showed me a pic without me asking another day we were eating a ocokie dip at work she fed me the last spoon mshe smiles when i give her cholocates we talk about different stuff she doubles down on her messagesm but when i try and invite her like once i tried to invite her to go to tenis she tries to ignore the qeustion, but there are times like a few weeks ago she was in barcelona and she messaged me by herslef , for her brthday she also invited me to grab a coffe just the two of us before work on friday i invited her she accepted but we didnt get to sit because a coworker popped out of nowhere , but we had this like mini fight at work i thouight she was joking so i told her on slack since i have access on aws i can put the logos on s3 she didnt see that and when she was on a call later i went to her mentor trying to ask him how i should do it and so jhe told me let her do it she can do it in 2 sec i said okay then later went and told her at first i thought she was joking but apperently she got hurt by this i dont see it as a big deal but she did then after work i drove her home i dropped her halfway becase she wanted to talk 4 min later i called her and chatted randonly she trying to act mad at me until she went home then i later messaged her syaing something funny i got stuck in traffic she said oh i wonder what you did i said i didnt do anything to deeserve this even if i did ill fi it she said ehh yeah and started telling me that she ate tiramisu after that she became very dry the next day as well on the group chat i asked when the other friend told us why is she ignoring us i said she isnt she probably just wokr up and i said good mornign how was ur sleep the other friend replied dont try to fix ur mistake, then she said it is not like he cares about me just trying to fix the mistake and i dmd her later and was extremly dry i will send you after this the chat log. On monday she ignored me but slowly got close again she even accepted a work trip on the beach with two other girls at the work group one of them she is not fond of at all and the other ones she just doesnt care but doesnt like chat alot with, she also suggested we spend one night. Yesterday was the worst day i asked her to come help me find a gift for our other friend at the car park i accidently hit another car just a small scratch but that really ruined my day i didnt show it much she tried to comfort me a bit , then her sister asked if she wanted to eat fast food she asked me to i said no you dont jokingly and i told her today i plan to treat you she said i just told her wait for me when i come, so yeah we didnt get to buy a gift i didnt get to stay much with her i lost money, so terrible im afraid she like looks down or smth at me now, but she hasnt mentioned that thing since not even at my friend (who works with us) or even to me after it all happened . Today we were looking at a aparmtnet where to sleep for the beach there was one with jsut wo beds i was like okay thats fine by me she said if any of the girs accept fine by me i want my personal space, then later wer were together looking at other places and she was like jokingly smiling and saying i dont want in a room with you . to be honest i dont know how to act or what to do i never had a proper relationship most of the girls i talked to / dated were like very bad on personality and stuff i really like this girl.
Posted Jun 17, 2026, 1:05 PM UTC