Am I in the wrong?

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*THE VERY END OF THE POST COULD BE TRIGGERING*

Okay so I am very very early pregnant like 5 weeks. Me and the dad are not together at all. We are both only 19.

He thinks I am faking the pregnancy despite the fact of showing him the results of my blood tests and seeing the ultrasound pictures from the transvaginal ultrasound I had.

He wants me to PROVE that I am actually pregnant by showing him the patient portal at the hospital so that he can go through my medical records (word for word “I want to look at your portal so I can see all the tests you’ve had done”

Now I don’t know if he just doesn’t believe the babies his or he truly thinks I’m faking. But the way he’s acting makes me not want to show him anything anymore.

The last thing we talked about was him coming to a doctor’s appointment with me to prove that it’s real and he still wants to see the patient portal. Like I don’t seriously don’t understand why he’s so obsessed with my patient portal.

I will add another reason I don’t want him going through my medical records is because I had a miscarriage (not his) back in January and I don’t want anyone in my personal life knowing about it.

So would it be wrong if I just didn’t show him my patient portal?

Posted Jun 17, 2026, 1:06 PM UTC

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