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Am I crazy to name my next boy Laurence and call him Laurie?

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I'm not even pregnant with my second child yet, but am already spiraling over this name that my husband and I both love but don't know if people will "get" it. (I have a girl name picked out from when my first was born that we know we'll use if we have a girl this time, so just want to have a boy name ready.) For context, my first son is named Adrien and as far as names for future kids go, we want to stick with a "European vibe" (though we are based in the US).

My husband and I haven't been able to settle on another boy name to-date. I really love the name Gabriel but my husband isn't on board. I also like Sylvan and Stellan but I feel a little bit of hesitancy on both of those for some reason. Maybe because they feel a little too "out there," which is why I'm surprised on the name that we both ended up really liking: Laurence. The plan would be to call him Laurie, like in Little Women. I know Lawrence/Laurence in itself is not "out there," but Laurie as a nickname for a boy definitely would be.

A few questions I'd like to crowdsource some answers for:

  1. Is it weird/inconsistent if we name him Laurence which is actually the female version of the name in French (male would be Laurent but I don't think that fits easily enough into English for us)? I worry because we specifically used the French spelling of Adrien.

  2. Are we damning our child for life with a nickname like Laurie? I know that once you get to know someone, their name just becomes their name and I think once people got used to it they wouldn't feel it was weird, but I don't want my son to always have to explain himself. We live in the metro area of a major city FWIW, which maybe makes it a little bit easier.

  3. I do also have an Uncle Larry (Lawrence) who I am not particularly close to. I don't want it to feel weird if he thinks I'm naming my son after him lol. Does it seem strange to name my son a variation of his name?

  4. I actually don't love the name Lawrence, even though it's pronounced exactly the same, it has a very different vibe to me than Laurence. This isn't really a question, just not sure how to feel about it.

  5. Any other name suggestions based on this criteria? Last name begins with a C and is Italian.

  6. Anyone else decide to go with a "risky" name and ended up really loving it (or hating it)?

Thank you!!

Posted Jun 17, 2026, 1:06 PM UTC

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