41 [M4F] #michigan #detroit #ohio #online Married Dominant looking for a spectacular escape

Hi there,

I’ve been searching for the right fit in the BDSM community for a little while without much luck. I have about a decade of experience in BDSM, though I haven’t been active for the past seven years. That itch has been pulling me back, and I’m ready to explore again.

Full transparency: I’m married, and my wife is fully aware and supportive of this. She’s asexual and understands that this is a craving I need to satisfy. This will be my first time stepping outside my marriage. Her only rule is that it must remain completely separate and never impact our family life in any way. I’m looking for someone who is comfortable with and respectful of this discreet arrangement.

My main interests right now are:
• Pain play (nothing permanent, no blood or lasting marks)
• Orgasm control
• Degradation

I’m based in southeast Michigan and would love in-person meetups if the connection is right, but I’m also open to online dynamics (at least to start).

I’m seeking a partner who values clear communication, consent, safety, and mutual respect. If this resonates with you and you’re interested in exploring together, I’d love to hear from you. We can chat, share more about ourselves, discuss limits and boundaries, and see if we click.
Looking forward to connecting.