41 [M4F] Bangalore - fantasy, control and surrender with maturity

I'm 41, single, Bangalore-based, and drawn to fantasies around control, surrender, obedience, resistance, ownership, discipline, degradation, CNC, breeding energy, watersports, praise, correction, riding, being filled, and being led properly.

I don't want fantasy talk that feels empty. I want the kind where the woman is curious, engaged, honest and willing to let the conversation build instead of sending two dead replies and disappearing.

I like submissive women, including guarded ones. I understand caution. I even enjoy playful resistance. What I don't like is rudeness, arrogance, disrespect or lazy bratting with no warmth behind it.

Limits, privacy and respect matter. I'm only interested in single, available women - no married women, no cheating, no sugar and no findom. Condoms are not part of the dynamic I'm looking for, so recent testing and honesty are required.

I want effort both ways - curiosity, questions, and replies that have life in them.

DM me with what pulls you in, what instantly turns you off, and include 'effort both ways' so I know you read this properly.