41 [M4F] North Bangalore - private, mature, and dominant

I'm 41, single, based in Bangalore, and looking for a private connection with a woman who wants maturity, discretion, chemistry and effort both ways.

I'm dominant, direct and calm. I like conversation that builds into tension instead of dead replies, lazy flirting or someone expecting to be chased forever.

I'm drawn to women who are soft underneath, even if they have had to build walls. Guardedness is understandable. Rudeness, arrogance, disrespect and low-effort games are not attractive to me.

If things become physical, I'm clear about what I want: limits, privacy and respect matter. Condoms are not part of the dynamic I'm looking for, so recent testing and honesty are required.

I want effort both ways - curiosity, questions, and replies that have life in them.

DM me with what kind of connection you're looking for and include 'effort both ways' so I know you read this properly.