Investing in female friendship

30F, bi, Asian descent. After years of disappointing romantic relationships, I am prioritizing deep friendships with other women. This pivot feels exactly right, but also a little daunting because I don’t have a clear idea of how to find connections that are intense, joyful, intimate, and cerebral. Possibly I’m looking for too much at once. Also, to be honest, loneliness is making me perhaps a little too needy for other women to vibe with on a regular basis, either irl or online. So I guess I’m looking for advice or insights on how to actually bring these kinds of new friendships to fruition.