Should going to university be the last thing on my mind?
My parents were extremely controlling when i was young and i totally can’t hang out with friends or work part time. I’m stuck at home everyday and they won’t even teach me how to do housework when i want to learn. I don’t have any skills and don’t even know how to wash/iron clothes and how to vacuum floor all those.
I graduated from poly and they won’t pay for my uni fees and i don’t have enough money and i’m not allowed to take bank loan also. I feel like i should just start working and brush up on my social skills at work and use the money that i earn at work to visit all the places that i want to visit and learn those skills that can be learned outside like driving.
I read online that it’s hard to make friends in university and it won’t be a place where i can improve on my social skills and i need the money to gain the experience that i never get when i was young.
Then house chores and cooking can wait till i’m old like 40+ when im probably living on my own
Posted Jun 17, 2026, 1:09 PM UTC