41 [M4F] Bangalore - private, mature, and looking for real chemistry

I'm 41, single, Bangalore-based, and looking for a private connection with a woman who wants chemistry, maturity and effort both ways.

I'm direct, discreet, dominant, and more drawn to connection that builds through conversation than low-effort flirting. I like control and surrender, but I also like warmth, respect, privacy and curiosity.

I'm not looking for someone who only wants to be chased. I want a woman who can ask back, keep a conversation alive, and show some spark instead of sending dead replies.

If things become physical, I'm clear about what I want: limits, privacy and respect matter. Condoms are not part of the dynamic I'm looking for, so recent testing and honesty are required.

I want effort both ways - curiosity, questions, and replies that have life in them.

DM me with what pace feels comfortable to you and include 'effort both ways' so I know you read this properly.