Is my penis too small?

Hi, this is a throwaway account. I am 23 now, indian. Currently on a good day when erect it's around 5.3 inch length and 4.45 inch girth (Bone pressed). This feeling began pretty young. When I was in 6th standard a friend asked why is it small? I didn't had any answer back then. I asked my Dad. He said some of it is under fat. But then they also took me to a homeopathic doctor and he saw it and said it's ok. Also gave some medicine as well. Then it began. Down the rabbit hole looking for ways to increase the size. I felt so bad about it, so I decided not to get married at all in future. I discovered porn around the beginning of 10th standard because everyone used to talk about it in boarding school. It became an escape for some time. Recently I began thinking again since I finally started my first job and in India, people usually start asking about marriage already in a casual fun way like " you're going to get married soon like in 4-5 years " and everytime they ask i yell at them saying economy is bad and all but I am scared of this as well actually. When I frequently avoided that topic one close family member said that someone did the same and they asked him and took to a doctor to check for any problem. That made me worry more. Then I went to Reddit rabbit hole search all kinds of posts related to penis size and what married women or couples think about it, never posted myself. I saw a lot of posts similar to that search. There was one end of spectrum where it said sex is not only PIV but other things like communication, foreplay etc where the other spectrum is like size matters very much. I used tools like **calcsd** and I was around average size. But then again in Indian subreddits almost everyone say minimum 6 inches length and 5.5 - 6 inches girth. That made me even confused and back where I began. I wanted to know what women felt and never really found a good answer or straight answer.