Would you want to know?
Here's the situation.
Towards the end of last year, a guy from my past reached out. After a bit of catching up, he hit me with the "you're the one that got away" bit. He told me that he'll always love me and since we didn't work out, he's been looking for a girl like me. He also said that he's getting married to a girl and she's pregnant. Needless to say it was a lot, but I'm extremely happily married (sent him pictures of my husband and I) and basically told him I wish him well and whatnot.
Well a month or so later, he reached out to me again and was super upset, said that his wife lost the baby and he doesn't really love her and doesn't want kids with her. He was calling me and asking if I would ever move back to our hometown. I gently shut it down.
Fast forward to now, they're still together and she's pregnant again.
With the information I've given, in my position, would you tell the girl? I don't know her at all, I don't want to ruin anyone's relationship, but there's a small part of me that feels like it's the right thing to do. The much larger part of me is saying to mind my own business.
Mainly wanting to hear from women or anyone who's been in a similar situation.
Posted Jun 17, 2026, 1:11 PM UTC