41 [M4F] Bangalore - mature, private, dominant, and looking for effort both ways

I'm 41, single, Bangalore-based, and looking for a woman who wants a private, mature connection with chemistry, honesty and effort both ways.

I'm dominant by nature, but I'm not looking to turn this into crude fantasy talk from the first message. I like a slow build - conversation, curiosity, tension, trust, and the feeling that both people are choosing to keep going.

I'm drawn to women who are soft underneath, even if they have had to build walls. I understand caution. I don't enjoy rudeness, arrogance, disrespect, or low-effort replies dressed up as confidence.

If things become physical, I'm clear about what I want: limits, privacy and respect matter. Condoms are not part of the dynamic I'm looking for, so recent testing and honesty are required.

I want effort both ways - curiosity, questions, and replies that have life in them.

DM me with what kind of connection you actually want and include 'effort both ways' so I know you read this properly.