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My husband is a very good man. I’ve been with him for 6 years- married 1. He’s never given me a reason to not trust him. He’s sworn he stopped watching porn before we had even met & I believe it because I had stopped at the same time, so I believe it can be done. He was voted most trustworthy in high school and is very disciplined and takes care of me. He has a trustworthy profession and a man of God. I was bored one day and downloaded his Snapchat spotlight history & Facebook reel hx. (He does not have Instagram, TikTok, X etc. he deleted those when we were gf/bf. I know how inappropriate Facebook can be. There were I would say 50 inappropriate reels probably out of 1000. His Snapchat spotlight showed 70 of inappropriate out of around 1888. (Yes I went through it all). Some borderline soft porn. Based on the view history, it looks like none of it was rewatched, some not even watched all the way through. But some were watched all the way through. He does tell me it was just for mindless entertainment and he really regrets it based on seeing how hurt I am. I have mentioned separation and he is very upset. The most I’ve ever seen him upset. I think the betray is just the fact i didn’t know he was on reels/spotlight, so he lied. Maybe he just didn’t tell me bc he thought there really was no harm. This is the most upset I’ve ever seen him. Could it be possible he viewed this as mindless scrolling with no type of attachment? Please do not respond with all men watch porn, I don’t believe that. Thank you

Posted Jun 17, 2026, 1:15 PM UTC

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