After two kids, my wife finally initiated and I’m feeling really excited

Me and my wife had irregular sex basically after the birth of two children. My younger one is one year old and the elder one is three years old now. But now we are having frequent sex, like once or twice in a month, but most of the time I used to initiate this.

Now we are planning for a casual trip and it takes about four days. So we went for shopping and my wife bought some pretty lingerie. Actually, I had asked her if she was interested in buying some, and she was interested too.

After a hectic day of shopping, we came back home. She said she wanted to try out the new clothes she bought. Initially she was trying the new clothes and then she started wearing the lingerie and asked me how she looked in it. I felt really great seeing her in that.

I asked her, “Come, let’s sit together and hug each other.” Then we had a really good session together. Initially she locked the door and I asked her if she wanted to turn off the lights. She said no, she wanted the lights on.

We spent a lot of time with foreplay and just enjoying each other’s company. One thing that surprised me was that she gave me a blowjob, which hasn’t happened in a long time. More than that, she seemed genuinely enthusiastic and fully involved in the moment. We both focused on each other’s pleasure and felt very connected.

What made me really happy was not even the sex itself. It was seeing her confidence, her enthusiasm, and feeling like she genuinely wanted to be there. For a long time I felt like I was the one initiating most of the time, so this felt very different.

I know one night doesn’t change everything, but after two kids and a long period where intimacy wasn’t the same, this made me feel really excited, relieved and hopeful.