Did I mess up or is she wrong

37m,38f

I had met while working we didn't live to far from one another maybe a half hour.

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We had decided to date and entered into a relationship just over 16 months ago. Everything was great except one thing she never told her family about me which I understand to a point these days you don't just bring anyone home.

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Anyways about three months ago I started to see a change where she would make dumb excuses for me not to come over and only called when she needed something or help with the kids. We would text daily but conversation started to get shorter and shorter.

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Finally one night few weeks ago I got upset and asked her why I can't come see her... Her excuse I'm exhausted from work and all I want to do is sleep no not tonight babe I had a rough day at work no how about breakfast tomorrow no nothing. So I told her I didn't want to see her any more untill she can find the time for our relationship she said fine and hung up. The next day I got a text that said we are adults and can still be friends this and that. The problem I have with that is simple I fell hard for this women and even the thought of not having her in my life is truly heartbreaking.

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I had the suspicion she was seeing someone else and I couldn't prove it. I bent over backwards for this women and truth be told I probably would again if she called and needed something just to hear her voice and see her.

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The hell do I do forget about move or try to repair it. I mean tell me I was wrong