41 [M4F] Bangalore - extreme taboo, privacy and maturity

I'm 41, single, Bangalore-based, and drawn to extreme taboo with the right woman - the kind of private, hidden desire that needs maturity, honesty, hygiene, limits and respect to even be discussed properly.

I'm not interested in shock value, crude low-effort messages or people who treat extreme kink like a joke. The pull for me is trust, surrender, shame, secrecy, permission and the private intensity of exploring something most people would never understand.

I like submissive women, including guarded ones. I understand caution. I even enjoy playful resistance. What I don't enjoy is rudeness, arrogance, disrespect or childish bratting.

Limits, hygiene, privacy and respect matter. I'm only interested in single, available women - no married women, no cheating, no sugar and no findom. Condoms are not part of the dynamic I'm looking for, so recent testing and honesty are required.

I want effort both ways - curiosity, questions, and replies that have life in them.

DM me with what pulls you in, what your limits are, what instantly turns you off, and include 'effort both ways' so I know you read this properly.