"'m more interested in dating and conversation than hookups

I'm a 35-year-old gay man from middle east and I'm considering a solo trip to Bangkok.

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I'm not looking for paid services or nightlife recommendations. I'm more interested in meeting people, dating, and having genuine mutual connections while traveling.

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For those who have visited Bangkok, what's the best way to meet other gay men in their 30s and 40s? Which apps are actually active there? Are there specific neighborhoods, cafés, social events, or places where it's easier to meet people naturally?

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Any advice from locals or frequent visitors would be appreciated.