23 [M4F] #Hertfordshire/UK - Inexperienced nerdy guy looking for my kinky childfree life partner for a D/s relationship age 18-22 (Open to relocating)

This post is likely going to be quite long so please bear with me! Please make sure that you’ve read it all before you reach out, if you decide to. If you think we’re a good match then please don’t hesitate to send me a chat and tell me a bit about yourself just like I’ve done here, I can’t wait to hear from you! (Please only reach out if you’re serious about wanting a relationship and match what I’m looking for)

A bit about Me:

I'm 23 and live just outside of London in the UK.

I'm childfree by choice and plan to get a vasectomy at some point in the future, I’m not sure when exactly I’ll get around to it but ideally sooner rather than later. Once I'm sterile, I'll be getting it tested every six months to be safe.

In general I’d say I’m not a very family orientated person, I’m not close to most of my family although I do have a good relationship with my parents, overall I’d say family just isn’t a big part of my life and I don’t base my life around it and I’d like to be with a partner who has a similar mindset.

I'm 5'10 or 178 cm.

Right now I work in a pub and I’ve been there for about 6 months, I enjoy it most of the time and it works for me right now while I’m just trying to save a bit. I have a Computer Science degree, and my long-term goal is to be a software engineer, currently when I have time I try to just keep my programming skills fresh although it’s not a huge focus right now however it will soon be because my goal is to be ready to start seriously job searching for my first career job by the end of the year at the latest, I’m under no illusion though that it’ll be quick or easy as the job market right now is frankly awful. I would not consider myself very career-oriented; while I want to do well for myself, I definitely value work-life balance the most.

I'm neurodivergent and quite introverted. I definitely value my quiet time, although I can be quite outgoing as well around the right people. I'd say I'm quite laid back and I have very little tolerance for things like yelling (at each other) when it comes to a relationship at least so I'd like to say I'm good at communicating and working things out.

I don’t smoke or take drugs although I do drink occasionally.

I'm financially literate and responsible, I hope to eventually retire early in the future.

I'm not religious.

I like to travel. I’ve been to seven countries so far, mostly in Europe but I’ve also been to the US, I like sightseeing and travelling like that but I also enjoy more relaxing holidays as well, I want to travel all over the world in future some ideas I have is I want to go to Australia and New Zealand for a bit and explore them, I want to go to the US again and go to New York and also the West Coast, I want to visit Japan, Thailand and lots of other Asian countries and then of course want to visit lots of other places in Europe.

My long term goal is to live in a big city, I’m not necessarily picky on which city it just has to have a decent job market for tech, if possible I’d like to be able to live without having a car.

NSFW wise, I have a very high sex drive and am definitely on the dominant side when it comes to my sexuality. Admittedly my experience is quite limited like I am a virgin for example but I do have some experience with other things, I have a range of kinks that I enjoy, some that I have experience with and others that I want to try. Specific things I'm into, which I have experience with, are facefucking, throatpies, facials (although I don’t do them that often, I much prefer cumming in a girls mouth to be honest) and rimming (both giving and receiving), Things I don't have experience with but want to try are anal, cockwarming, some semi public play stuff as long as it’s not too risky, I have a kink sheet filled out that I can show you. In terms of the dynamic I'm looking for a D/s relationship, nothing too strict but one where i can take the lead and be the one to make decisions (with your input of course).

I'm very affectionate. I can't get enough of cuddles, I'll absolutely tell you I love you constantly, compliment you, etc.

I’m very nerdy overall, I’m a big gamer, mostly into single player games, open world, some RPGs, just anything with a good story really.

I would like to get married eventually; however, I absolutely do not want to have a wedding. I know that's a bit forward to say right away, but I just want to make sure I'm not wasting anyone's time if that's something that's important to them. 

What I'm Looking For:

You're 18-22 years old and are in the UK or Anywhere in the world (I know this is a UK subreddit but I’m sure there are some people who are not in the UK who will see this) although if you’re not in the UK then you would need to be willing to relocate here eventually. In the meantime I’m happy to do long distance and visit each other.

You're firmly childfree (you do not have or ever want to have children). If you’ve been sterilised or want to in the future that is a big plus but it's not a hard requirement.

You want to travel the world with me in the future.

You are not very family orientated.

You are not religious.

You don't smoke or take drugs.

You, just like me, have a very high sex drive, are submissive and into the same kinks that I listed earlier and want a D/s dynamic, It doesn’t matter if you have any experience or not, just that you’re open minded and want to explore and have a good time together.

Ideally, you're also introverted like me.

If you have some nerdy interests that’s definitely a plus.

If you’re neurodivergent as well that’s something we could connect on but it doesn’t matter at all if you’re not.

Like me, you want to get married in the future but don't want a wedding/don't care about having one.

You’re just a nice person in general and are a good communicator, as I said before I really do not like yelling in relationships so I'm looking for the type of relationship where we can just discuss everything calmly and work things out if we have an issue.

You are also a very affectionate person.

You're financially literate or are open to learning so that we can work on retiring early together.