i'm so sick of people acting like trans women are just men in dresses

people treat trans women like disgusting crossdresser pervs, which is awful because they have LITERALLY nothing in common at all in the slightest! men dress feminine for gross sexual Man reasons, while trans women dress feminine for innocent pure angelic Woman reasons. being trans isn't a sexual fetish, unlike those gross crossdressing creepy men who just do it to get off (bad and evil)

/uj hope i didn't jerk too close to the sun with this one, i feel like i've been seeing people be Really weird about gender non-conformity lately and i wanted to jork it. why is it so difficult for some people to state the difference between trans women and feminine cis men without villainizing either group. "girl in dress" is not a morally superior state of being to "guy in dress", or vice versa. obviously there is a lot to criticize about the culture around feminine men, but this generalized rhetoric helps nobody