Dad dating someone my age pt. 2

‼️Update on my dad that was dating someone my age and they had a couples Spotify playlist with Lana one it‼️ This post is giving girldinnerdiaries subreddit sorry about that

Here’s the first post

So my dad went insane during my wedding and made the whole event about how he’s dating a 31 year old (he also punched my bff/officiants husband at the wedding if that helps paint the picture) I didn’t talk to him for months after cause he was being nasty as hell, he eventually apologized for being insane and claimed he was manic and lost his mind, but was back together with the 31 year old at that point. They’ve since broken up, he’s diagnosed her with BPD and claimed she love bombed him, poor guy :(. We haven’t seen each other since the wedding ~8 months ago so I went to visit for Father’s Day and it was a nightmare.

He has a new 40 year old girlfriend and I third wheeled with them all weekend which was odd. She’s fine, I liked her so I hope she leaves soon. He let me know he dated a 29 year old after the 31 year old. He said this has been the “best year of his life” which is awesome considering he blew up the family/wedding/his career 8 months ago.

He was really stuck in a loop where all he wanted to talk about was how amazing looking he is for his age, he’s so fit (disagree), so trim, has all his hair (disagree), so rich, so successful. Other topics included: how OLD and/or fat 40+ women look (he told me he thought his 40 year old gf looked old in the sunlight during dinner the night before), calling my mom fat, talking about not knowing what he would do if he was still married to my mom re: her weight gain, his career, his house.

He would NOT STOP talking about age gaps the entire weekend, he was so hyped up and inappropriate/crude almost acting like a 12 year old. He was doing all of this in front of new gf. We went out to dinner and he introduced us to the waiter by going “this is my daughter(me) and this is my daughter(new gf)” - I can’t really handle unpacking that rn

He was really going to the dark side on Sunday night. I was asking his new gf about her life/trying to talk about literally anything other than what he’d been talking about. You could feel his rage when he wasn’t the center of attention and he kept screaming ITS FATHERS DAY CAN WE TALK ABOUT ME. After throwing 15 mini fits and not getting the reaction he wanted, he pulled a truly psychotic move and turned on our father daughter dance song and started holding and rubbing on his girlfriend and looking at me so intensely going “are you crying? You should be crying. Why aren’t you crying?”

I did cry but he didn’t see it so he really cranked it up a notch, I kind of blacked out by this point and don’t remember the lead up, but he would not stop poking and talking about young women/the 30 year old/needing attention and just being awful. So I snapped and asked why he was doing that and if he was mad at me and he said yes, which he definitely didn’t mean to say lol, and then said it’s because I didn’t talk to him for 8 months. Admitting to purposefully trying to hurt your daughter with your behavior and by constantly talking about how you want to fuck young women is hard to come back from. He looked like this emoji in that moment 👹

Having trouble accepting that he’s fully evil but I’m feeling lighter 👼👼 now that I know he does this on purpose and I don’t have to have that in my beautiful life !!