Dont know how to handle this

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My partner has been an alcoholic for 10 years and has always sought help (inpatient rehab, therapy, etc.). I’ve been with him for three years.

For the past three months, he’s been refusing help—like inpatient rehab—and I can’t stand his drunkenness anymore. I’m at my limit.

I don’t want to go on like this, and I know he can’t stay sober on his own without professional help.

The day before yesterday, I wrote him an extremely long message explaining how much his drunk behavior is weighing on me.

Today he’s drunk again, and I’m so angry I could explode!

Should I break up with him?

Posted Jun 23, 2026, 2:25 PM UTC

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