A good top is just an average bottom...

(I know it's a big generalisation) I have been on dating apps recently as a Side, talking to both tops and bottoms and I have realised that most bottoms can actually carry a conversation without having to include sex or just being weird in general (of course, there's nothing wrong if you want sex but it feels like a demand when it comes from a top and most aren't polite) I've met really good tops before but most people that I've had a fun time interacting with are bottoms, as friends.

Btw what I mean by good is that most bottoms are polite, won't include sex at first, and if you refuse the offer of having sex they won't bother you much about it or call you names for being uninterested.

Anyways, that has been my personal experience. I believe there are so many good tops but what are your thoughts :)