44M just looking for someone in NJ who’s awesome.

Not sure if this is allowed but I don’t know what other subreddit has an R4R with anyone like this. I’m in an open marriage so she knows I’m here. Let’s talk. I love art. I draw and make things and I’m a total nerd and I’m told I’m pretty handsome for my age. Let’s see how long this post lasts before I get yelled at.