First time sex with my girlfriend (19F) and me (20M), both virgins, looking for advice.
Hi everyone,
My girlfriend (19F) and I (20M) have been together for 4 years since school. We're thinking about having sex for the first time soon, and neither of us has any experience—we're both virgins.
We're a bit nervous and want to make sure it's a safe, comfortable, and positive experience for both of us.
What advice would you give two first-timers? Anything you wish you knew before your first time? Any tips on communication, protection, and things to avoid?
Thanks! 🙏
Posted Jun 23, 2026, 9:04 PM UTC
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