I’ve lived in Singapore and travelled around Asia for work for almost 4 years now. Here’s my tips on how to have a great time as a white guy.

1. abuse apps

Being a white guy, especially if you’re tall, or blond or have blue/green eyes is a cheat code, gets you matches very fast. But here’s what people miss.

INCLUDE THAT YOURE A TOURIST in your bio.  I always have the fact Im only going to be here for 1 week in my bio. I have this even in Singapore where I live. This makes it so 100% of your matches want just have sex and you don’t need to waste time taking them on third and fourth dates.

This selects for a certain type of girl, if you want a long term relationship with some shy library girl this probably isn’t how you will meet her, but I always keep this running in the background as it’s the best way to meet 8-10/10 open minded girls (ahem, bwc sluts) who just want to be fucked.

2) make friends with AM

Don’t look down on them, don’t flaunt how easy it is for you to get girls. Do not subtly emasculate them, youre not being sly and people will just secretly think of you as a jerk. Leave that stuff for in bed with girls, they will love it. Just be chill and friendly with the AMs and they will reciprocate and invite you to cool stuff and many are interesting people worth getting to know anyways.

One of my good friends now is a Korean producer I bonded with since I also make music as a hobby. Now whenever I go to Seoul he gets me into places/parties I wouldn’t even know existed otherwise.

3) don’t try to fit in. Youre not a meek Asian guy and you shouldn’t pretend to be. Be respectful of the culture without being deferential. This makes girls you meet at parties/classes/other irl activities way more likely to sleep with you. When sleeping with a guy from their culture they have 20 different reservations. By being different you make them drop all those and judge you by completely different standards. If you act like the Asian guys they will becoming demanding and put you through a bunch of trials.  It’s like magic, the same girl who wanted a serious relationship before letting a guy take her virginity, will give it to you after you take her on an impromptu weekend surfing trip.

This doesn’t apply to girls you meet on apps because in that case you both go in knowing you two just wanna fuck, but this is a big cheat code for asking out the barista or cute girl in the night class.

4) dont do hardcore raceplay without feeling out the girl first. This was one of the few mistakes I made in my first year. Every woman before had liked it, but this college girl had a serious problem with it and if I hadn’t managed to convince her I wasn’t a bad guy I might have gotten a bad reputation in a circle I cared about.

If anyone has questions feel free to ask.

White mans guide to Asia