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Wolfen198

How did you end up on hiatus, burnt out, or fully done with roleplaying?

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Firstly, I am a story-driven roleplayer that still enjoys sexual content in the RP. Quick, kink-based scene setups are typically a turn off for me.

I took a couple of years off from roleplaying with anyone other than one partner for a long time because I simply never learned how to say no to other players that I didn't really see much interest in. I just thought it would be rude to refuse them. I've now learned that's a very self destructive way of going about my life and while its still difficult to find the words to tell someone in a diplomatic way that I've no interest in RPing with them, my overall experience on f-list after this has been significantly better.

So if you've ever felt burnt out or stopped playing, I'm curious to know why that might have been for you. One too many rude players? Inconsiderate ones that didn't take your kinks into account (for those of you more kink and sex focused)? Maybe you told them a little too much information about yourself and they started stalking you?

I suspect that most of the people that stopped playing or took breaks aren't exactly here, but still, I'm curious!

Posted Jun 24, 2026, 6:07 PM UTC

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