i dont know how to cope, i guess?

im tired of all the xy chromosomed people i get in my life. why can't they just consider a woman as a human or a friend. all of them see us as some potential girlfriend. its weird. and they get rid of me as soon as they realise we cannot date, which is fair, very understandable. but i feel so disrespected. am i not a human, was i not your friend? and even if you accept a proposal, they will again start treating you as subhuman because their main goal was just to make you your gf right. its so annoying.

i am tired. i am done. i am annoyed. how does one actually deal with this weird behavior without saying bye bye to my mental peace? is there a way to prevent this? also very sorry if this was annoying.