Found the one but i am confused

I just wanted to talk about it and this is gonna be long 😭.

So i have always been a girl who was not so much into relationships and dating stuff. Had a very long situationship which affected my mental health too much so i stepped completely back from dating. Started focusing on myself. Worked on myself. Started multiple sports including padel, badminton, swimming, running etc. worked on myself , started gym( have already perfect body but i just like gym idk why do i did) sometimes go to raves (i dont drink vape anything but attended raves sometimes cuz i love to dance) sleeping, started cooking for myself and focused on good diet. Focused religiously to a point that every worst situation couldn't effect me cuz all i believe is allah does everything for a reason and i truely trust there is something good for me in everything. Apart from that, not being a narcissist but i believe i look good , always gets compliments on my eastern and western both dressing sense., am academically great, ambitious , always involved in some kinda internship, project, ngo or any other extracurricular. A couple of my male friends showed interest in me romantically. But i just dont know but i have this thing in my mind that i cant ever think of going into a relationship with my friends. I mean i just cant. Because i never see them that way. And i always made it clear in casual group conversations. And when i knew my male friends like me , i indirectly told them that i cant think of them that way. I have great group of friends. Many of them are in relationships and they always mock me that i wont ever find a man because my standards are too high. But i feel like asking for a man who is just my male version is not too much. I mean if i can offer all that, i should receive as well. A friend once said, mentioning his another friend, that he is my type. I laughed and forgot. Later, he (the guy my friend mentioned) started hanging out in my friends group and we used to go to go food and played random games together. Since he was in mutuals of my friends, i met him often but never talked one on one. Everytime, i casually noticed something in him that i admired. (Its never cuz of my friend mentioning him as my type of guy but genuinely as an observer) . Like He has all the qualities which i have in myself and always wanted in my man too . Like he checks all of my boxes. He is taller than me, Financially like my family so he has family compatibility with mine, not an idgaf sigma nonchalant man type. Considers cheating cheap, not controling, not a shokha type of larka, introvert but confident, doesn't mind jitna b tng krlo ya roast krlo, doesn't make or laugh at women jokes, respects women, he is reliable and predictable when comes to his own people, has dreams and ambitions , does sports,is adventurous and foody , communicates rather than being avoidant . Doesn't believe on cast and firqa stuff, knows how to cook, has High standards and don't chase women . I always wanted a man who is more dominating than me (since i am always the leading one) and he is dominating (not in a controlling way but in a way that the women stays in her feminine energy and lets the man lead )and treats human relationships like genuine human relationships rather than playing games and creating drama. I genuinely once made a list of characteristics i wanted in my man , just in a joking way with my friends since they mocked me for being single for so long. That was just a joke. But this guys actually has all that. So i feel like i like him. Yk everytime, we are in a group setting, i notice something in his chaaracter or behaviour that i like....now dont judge..
But he is dark and lean with not so fine dressing sense.
And now im confused. Do i just admire him as a good man? Or do i actually like him more everytime i meet him? Plus idk how to take things further with a man , i am dumb in this thingy, should i just tell him? Should i tell my friends that i kinda like him? I am not on his socials except a whatsapp friends group. I feel so strange in chasing a man. Like i cant do that. Should i just take this further as friendship? Im so confused.