HOW TO HANDLE YOUR PARTNER?

Hello! How donyou handle your partner na ayaw mag seek ng professional help? For the past few months sobrang distant nya, emotionally and physically. He feel empty sa lahat ng aspect ng life. Di daw nya alam nararamdaman nya. Wala siyang emotion he even called it "blunt affect". Super engaged sya sa tiktok, nag self diagnosed sya na meron sya adult adhd. Alam nya na may problema siya mentally. Naapektuhan na yung relationship namin. And ako as diagnosed with BPD, sobrang torture nito sakin.