I KNEW IT

I live in a sober living (always sober but mental health program pays for it) that is abusive and kinda transphobic because they won't respect my pronouns.

I had a sneaking suspicion that the house manager and his wife were narcs but couldn't put my finger on it until now! I should've trusted my gut, I know what narcissistic people act like due to living with narcs in the past aggghhh!

Anyway, so today I told house managers over text that we have bedbugs. One of the house managers called me and I told her that I cannot be outside for 6 hours in the heat when they tent the house as I have nowhere to go and have a medical condition that makes me sensitive to heat, as well as having one heatstroke seizure in the past, and on top of having a betta fish in the house. She said she could take the fish and I was like lol no, not happening. Then she suggested I go to the library or the mental health program for 6 hours.

Told her no, ya'll need to provide me somewhere to go for those 6 hours, as well as my fish.

She refused.

I was like you do realize I can sue you if I go out there in the heat and have a heatstroke seizure because you're refusing me accommodations right?

She freaked the fuck out and said I would be getting kicked out.

Then she lied in the group chat, saying I was "requesting" to leave. I called her out.

So eventually, as I'm making panicked phone calls, her husband the other house manager comes to the house to harass me through my bedroom door while I'm on the phone. I get off the phone eventually, and have him on video coming up to my door again after I told him to stop talking to me because I don't feel safe. He admitted that he had me sign a paper saying I'm not a tenant (which is illegal but he acts like it isn't), that I told him to not talk to me because I felt unsafe and he still kept talking, and then he tried to say that he wasn't gonna kick me out and didn't know what his wife had talked about with me, that I was making a huge deal out of this, and then he laughed and said I wouldn't possibly have a seizure for standing out in the heat for 6 hours (???).

So eventually I call the cops, they show up and are equally unhelpful and say it is a civil matter while house manager is standing there smirking like I'm insane, lying to the cops, and he kept walking in and out of the house to scare me when I told the cops to stop him from doing that because I didn't want him going into my room to fuck with my stuff.

So I'm like "whatever" and walk away because the cop is standing there playing braindead and asking me if I knew this guy is running an unlicensed sober living, why did I wait until I had a problem to report it? And the cops did jack shit.

They even asked the house manager as I stormed off "do you know how to evict them?"

Oh and the mental health program? Yeah, they called me and claimed they weren't taking sides and were just trying to keep the peace as they suggested I go to the library because house managers have to spray the house. Then wondered why I yelled at them for not listening to me...

Umm yeah I only have $30 to my name, 211 is useless, mental health program is laughably bad as usual, so awesome 😭 I wanna get into a clhf or something but aggghh