How do y'all feel about stretch marks, love handles, and overall body fat?

I've gained some weight from my last antidepressants. (I'm on new ones that don't make me gain weight, which with antidepressants is like almost it's not happening often at least not as often as I had grown up. I gained and lost weight my entire life due to these antidepressants. I also have an eating disorder and that does and does not have to with my weight. Anywayyy.... Enough back story) So, if you saw a lesbian with a tummy and stretch marks, love handles, how would you go about making them not feel better? Idk how to say it? it's late and I'm exhausted.