Has the passion cooled off?

So, I gave poly a break.. touched some grass, had some meaningful conversations in real life... It was good.. but I came back to the app and went right back into my usual haunts.

But, I've noticed that it's very difficult now to either get f***ed or to f*** anyone. It's all chatting, flirting but no real action. Is all this a tactic to get me to pay for a premium level?