What’re your thoughts?

In my community I’ve been told by leads that I’m about top 15% amongst followers on a given average social day, but many leads do not ask me more than once unless we are very close. Is it because I’m boring or because it’s intimidating?

I’m very friendly and smile. My tension is very light but I’m able to follow many advanced moves. I have been taking advanced classes for awhile but my footwork still needs work. Always working on the basic.