How long do you spend on foreplay? On average, assuming you can take as long as you want and aren't in a rush

For the sake of this question, don't include indirect acts that may in some cases be considered foreplay e.g. flirting, conversation at dinner, non-erotic massage etc

Direct sexual contact within the same session only e.g. kissing, erotic massage, breast play, showering together, oral if that's not the main event for you etc etc