On the verge of losing a love of my life..

This might (or might not) seem so stupid to many people, but here I go.

I have been in a relationship with my girlfriend for the past two years, but we are facing significant pressure from her family and our community. In our culture, love marriage is generally disapproved of, and families typically seek very wealthy partners for their daughters. Her parents are actively looking for an arranged marriage match for her, specifically targeting individuals who earn significantly more than I do.

While I believe she loves me, I am uncertain if she is willing to go against her family's wishes. At 32, I am also feeling pressure regarding my own future, as unmarried men over 28 in our community face skepticism, which may complicate future arranged marriage prospects for me as well.

I feel overwhelmed and stuck between these conflicting pressures and am unsure of the best way forward. What do I do?