Would you want your loved ones to cry after you die?

Or would you rather them forget you and live their life normally right after

personally i want them to remember me forever and not move on (especially my lover) ik this sounds really selfish but whatever

I wanna remain as a deep scar engraved in their heart and mind forever

Might be a shit take but that to me sounds like a proper ending!

Please lmk about your thoughts on this topic