34 [M4F] #Hampshire #England Femdom - seeking mistress

I'm 34M based in Hampshire, UK. I have a complete life, family, partner, home and a demanding but rewarding job. I had my eyes opened to femdom and am driven to find a connection - so trying my best to put my thoughts down here to find someone that connects on the same level.

I desire escapism, a second life and a simpler and fulfilling purpose that runs in parallel.

A year ago I connected with someone who turned out to be a domme and it threw everything I thought I understood about pleasure out of the window. The connection was lost but near a year on I have decided to pursue some of the feelings that were lost.

About me

I am active, positive, empathetic, curious, thoughtful, hardworking, respectful, emotionally literate.

I'm proactive and a problem-solver. I enjoy helping people. I lean on the quieter more reserved side but am not timid.I'm competent and self-driven but what I have discovered is deep down desire to be led.

Physically I am 5'10, a regular to slim gym-toned body with dark brown hair, and eyes a full but trimmed very short beard. I look after myself...I am white/english but occasionally mistaken for being more Mediterranean

My Ideal Domme

25+

I want a connection on many levels, as my understanding is that expression and enjoyment really only work with trust and good communication. So connecting on a human level and getting to know one another is as important to me as the wilder side.

Words that really connect for me;

Devotion, obedience, toy, pleasure, plaything, control, crave, servance.

My kink is gradually submit myself for the entirety of my dommes pleasure. I have various interests and preferences but ultimately serving my domme for her desires tops them all; and element of this is having my limits tested.

This is true escapism for me, and where my desire lies; for all of my roles and work to be reduced to nothing more than the sole purpose of providing pleasure and taking commands from my domme.

If it's not clear already my desire is for one long-term connection.

Next steps

I would love to know if this speaks to anybody, ideally not a million miles away. Tell me which words speak to you.