26 [M4F] Tired of being a roommate, looking for a real connection

I suck at writing about myself so sorry in advance

I’m not married but I’m in a long term relationship. I’m a 26m in WV. I work a lot, and when I’m home I try to stay busy. I always seem to have a new project or goal I’m chasing.

I have a fulfilling career. I’m a homeowner which feels like a miracle at my age in this economy. I have plenty of time to dedicate to myself and my hobbies. On paper it looks like I have my shit together and I should be happy about it. As you can probably tell by me being here, something is missing. 

My current relationship feels more like a roommate situation than a happy and healthy relationship. I miss the feeling of having an actual relationship. The kind that starts with curiosity and grows into anticipation. The kind where conversations don’t feel forced. The kind where I find myself checking my phone constantly for a message from you. Where there is attraction, chemistry, laughter, and hopefully a desire to eventually meet IRL. I miss the excitement of something new and getting to know someone.

A little about me:

I’m ambitious and goal oriented. I work in a skilled trade and spend a good amount of my free time working on things around the house, learning new skills, and diving into projects that probably consume more of my attention than they should.

When I really get invested in something, I tend to hyper fixate and give it all of my extra attention.

I’ve been focusing on getting healthier lately, spending time running and pushing myself physically. I’m currently working toward running my first 5k and I’m super excited to hit my goal. I’m a big fan of music, mostly hip-hop and the girliest pop ever. I enjoy conversations that can change effortlessly from serious topics to completely random or silly ones.

I’d describe myself as driven, sarcastic, dependable, loyal (ironic I know) and easy going. I’m the type of person who can hold a conversation, ask questions, and actually be interested in the answers. 

I don’t have any kids. 

If you respond, please include *notabot

Physically I’m tall (6’2”) with a dad bod (working on it). I’m bald and I wear glasses. I definitely think I look kind of nerdy 😅

What I’m looking for:

Someone who is missing the same thing.

Someone who wants more than casual small talk. Someone who values attraction, effort, chemistry, and discretion. Someone who misses feeling wanted and appreciated.

Ideally, you’re interested in eventually meeting if we connect. I’m not looking for a fantasy or an endless online situation, and I definitely don’t want to blow up anyone’s life or my own. I’d rather build something genuine with one person than juggle multiple conversations.

If this resonates with you, send me a message. Tell me a little about yourself and what brought you here.

Maybe we’re both looking for the same thing.